Beauty IS skin deep:

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  1. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    I have been watching the most beautiful woman/man thread, and is there anyone else out ther who thinks beauty is skin deep?

    i mean all these lovely looking men and women are all very well and good but they could have personalities of donkeys butts.

    it seems to me that people (me included) want a token looking person on my arm.

    what do you think?
     
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  3. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    We all want to have an ideal mate in life but sometimes we cannot find what we are looking for. Perfect bodies aren't easy to find in todays world so we must learn to accept people as what they are not only by looks but as what they think as well. Many "pretty" people I've met are so hung up on themselves its a wonder they ever really have a real realtionship anywhere! Others find their "beauty" attractive to go out with them to "show them off" to others like a trophy or something. Many pretty people that do marry find themselves in a divorce rather quickly because they are too good for the other person and seek others to keep up their game.
     
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  5. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    Beauty is only skin deep. I will agree with that totally.
    However, and you knew this was coming....ugly goes straight to the bone.

    No amount of personality or inner beauty will overcome someone you personally find vehemently unattractive.

    I've dated really pretty girls that were much less fun to be around than a few of the less attractive girls with better personalities. But if I don't find the girl attractive, no amount of chemistry or personality will overcome that.

    Not everyone is superficial but to say that looks don't play a big part it our dating, is quite inaccurate.
     
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  7. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    sure looks play a big part in dating, but shouldnt personalities aswell? i mean my husband is no oil painting, (sorry love) but he has a great great personailty, and that is over all why i fell in love with him.
     
  8. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Men can be gorgeous, the average joe, or ugly.......They can all drive you nuts!!

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  9. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    Oh most definitely. The last girl I dated was very pretty, but was a bit on the pushy/bossy side, with tantrums thrown here and there. That was a personality that I could not live with and had to break up with her.

    That's a two way street, my dear Shorty!
     
  10. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    they sure do, but i drive my husband nuts at times aswell
     
  11. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    You always take it so serious lol.....Without men around life would be boring

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  12. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    yeah i know where would we be without all that extra work they bring? (just joking all you men out there)

    men are a bonus it is true i guess.
     
  13. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    A bonus? A bonus of exactly what? Shouldn't that be necessity?
    I shutter to think that I'm considered just a bonus.

    I wasn't taking that serious shorty. I was merely delivering that response in the same facetious context that you made your statement.

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    You of all peeps on here should be familiar with my dry, sarcastic sense of humor by now.
     
  14. Myles Registered Senior Member

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    You are simply envious that you cannot pull a super chick. I don't have that problem because I have a method. After I have slept with a woman for ten nights, I give her a personality test. If she fail, out she goes. It's a foolproof system. Watch out for my forthcoming book.

    How Ugly Old Men Pull Bright Young Chicks
     
  15. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Yes I do, and you should know me by now lol

    Bonus? Just a few things come to mind

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  16. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    just a few??
     
  17. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    A few good enough to put up with their shit anyway LOL
     
  18. ashura the Old Right Registered Senior Member

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    I know that when I'm with someone who's personality I really enjoy, they become that much more beautiful. Works the other way too. It can totally change the way you look at someone. So, no, I wouldn't say it's skin deep.
     
  19. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    Ahhh....too many pronouns!
    Whom are you referring to? A few men good enough to put up with the woman's shit? Or vice versa?
     
  20. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    I will never fully understand men, and you will probably never
    figure us out lol
     
  21. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Can you run your hands over someone's personality? Can he insert it in you?

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    No, seriously, personality is important, but let's be honest. Personality alone is not attractive. You could be the nicest, most caring person in the world, but that won't make people fancy you if you look like a dog's ass.
     
  22. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    Personality is not what I notice from across a crowded room. Looks are what gets someone noticed, personality is what keeps you there.
     
  23. Myles Registered Senior Member

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    Well said ,but I go for looks with no intention of staying there.
     

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