Can someone please pass on to asguard, that when i speak to him, he is in big, big trouble.

Asguard, if you read this, you might want to start packing.

This public service announcement is now over.

Can someone please pass on to asguard, that when i speak to him, he is in big, big trouble.

Asguard, if you read this, you might want to start packing.

This public service announcement is now over.

um STFU NOOB

pjdude1219 you stfu and mind ur business if you have a problem, noone forced you to read or reply to this.


This is the ONLY PLACE and the ONLY THING he will pay attention to, so i may as well use it to get my point across.

Can someone please pass on to asguard, that when i speak to him, he is in big, big trouble.

Asguard, if you read this, you might want to start packing.

This public service announcement is now over.

you go girl!! He spending more time here than with you?
Asguard, sad to think she has to talk to her here rather than face to face.

:(

You cannot BEGIN to imagine, Orleander. :(

He would rather sit on here all day, and i mean LITERALLY, ALL DAY, than go to uni, get a job, talk to me ANYTHING.

Meanwhile, the house doesnt get cleaned, i get left to do it everyday after 8 hours at work, all because he has sat on sciforums ALL DAY. He doesnt even EAT anymore.

So, his "addiction" to this place has now left him homeless.

He supposedly had a "job trial" tonight, yet, funnily enough, was in here ...

I have been trying to call him, no answer, didnt even think to call and see if i was alive or to tell me how his "job trial" went (If he actually had one and wasnt lying to me about having one so i'd stop pushing him to actually help out with the house)

So, now, due to his addiction to sciforums and his general lack of respect and caring, he is homeless, because i've finally had enough and am booting his lazy ass out. I cant afford to keep an addict. Even if he is addicted to this place, it is an addiction - if i try and use the computer, he goes out of control. We cant go anywhere because he cant access sciforums. Even shopping trips turn nasty because he is having withdrawls. And ive had enough. He wont even spare 10 minutes to have sex anymore. How ridiculous and low do you think that makes me feel, that he'd rather talk to a bunch of strangers than do anything with me? And if by chance i do drag him off the computer and to the bedroom, within 2 minutes of being "done" hes straight back on.

So you might not see him around anymore from tomorrow onwards when i get home, because as far as im aware, you cant plug a computer into a tree you're sleeping under in the park.

And, yes, he has had MANY warnings, and this time, ive had enough of coming second to a cyber-community.

Its all about priorities and what you love most.

EmptyForceofChi used to be here a lot. As soon as his daughter was born, he was gone. Priorities.

What about the whole mental health depression thing? I went through it with my first husband. No job, no motivation, lying, lazy...etc.

He obviously doesn't love me more than this place.
He's never going to get the opportunity to have kids and prioritize, because hes never going to do anything to move his life forward.
This is an argument i have had many a time with him, and he just does not listen/care.
Ive tried to help him with his mental health, but theres only so much i can do to help him without him wanting to help himself. :(

It's sad that hes throwing his life away for a forum. And that is what he has done.

Tell Asguard that Kadark wishes him all the best!

Tell Asguard that Kadark wishes him all the best!

considering Bunny says he spends so much time here, you can tell him yourself.

considering Bunny says he spends so much time here, you can tell him yourself.

I thought she made it pretty clear that Asguard couldn't use a computer, unless there was a plug in the tree he was sleeping under.

the library. ;)

I won't be speaking to him when he's under that tree, so you wanna hope he has a look at this thread before i get home :)

Humm, we could ban him from Sciforums... for his own good. :)

I won't be speaking to him when he's under that tree, so you wanna hope he has a look at this thread before i get home :)

So, are you his wife or girlfriend?

Asguard averages 3.81 posts per day, which is very low. This "addiction" must be new.

Then he wouldn't speak to me anyway, so he would have nothing ... He's already told me if i tried to get him banned from here HE would kick ME out. (Funny since i pay the rent, electricity, gas, phone the INTERNET CONNECTION he is using and the food for him, so how can He kick ME out?? Anyway, this is besides the point....)

He's chosen this place over a real job, real uni course, real relationship and real life.

Now, he is going to have to have a virtual wedding and virtual babies on here, coz he wont be having any of it with me. :)

You must love him very much :)

Kadark i am his girlfriend or "partner".

We've been together for 5 years on 19th april this year. Well, would have been.

He has only just resurfaced, since i got broadband put on, so he could "study faster".

But even if he isnt posting, he sits on the computer and lurks in here, or pm's various people on here, or goes through old threads. It has just taken over his life. He will get on computer at 7 am when he wakes up, and get off it at whatever time he goes to bed. There is nothing in between. That is his day.

So yes, i am a little fed up with it.

And getting threats of violence towards me, and removal from the home i pay for completely, if i remove the internet connection or get him banned from here don't really help...

S.A.M.

I did love him very much. I can only be ignored for so long though. And tonight was the last straw. Ive had enough and am over it to be perfectly honest.
And he has no-one to blame but himself. It's going to take a crap load of groveling for me to even LOOK at him now, let alone SPEAK to him. The fact i actually posted this on here should be enough for him to realize i am MAJORLY over it.

Instead, he will come on here, get defensive, call me, get aggressive, tell me it;s my fault, try and make me feel bad and ignore me until i call him and ask "for forgiveness".

Sorry asguard, not gonna happen this time, like it does every other time you do something wrong and i speak up about it. You can do the grovelling, you are the one who has done wrong dearie. I'm not going to give in.

Its all about priorities and what you love most.

EmptyForceofChi used to be here a lot. As soon as his daughter was born, he was gone. Priorities.

What about the whole mental health depression thing? I went through it with my first husband. No job, no motivation, lying, lazy...etc.

Orleander - 10,599 posts since 06-22-07 - priorities.

For reference Asguard - 8378 since 02-23-02

Maybe we should start a subforum: Couples counceling... :)

His spelling went down lately, it is almost unreadable. Maybe he is depressed. On the bright side, he is not golfing or having a misstress, so cheer up! :)

If I had a good thing going with a woman, I sure wouldn't be here so much. Asguard, choose wisely.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NyQhfxbvQA

If I had a good thing going with a woman,

After 5 years everyone (man or woman) gets a tad bit boring...Why not just get her to post here more often?

She could put her views in at the G-spot thread!

you go girl!! He spending more time here than with you?
Asguard, sad to think she has to talk to her here rather than face to face.

:(


I can't beleive that you are CHEERING !!!someone on, for talking about throwing someone out. You sound like such a Bitch.
You barely know the circumstances of their relationship, or even this member Bunny.

You who always says this: Quote "I don't assume, I don't jump to conclusions. I'm not used to people who do"
(you sure contradict your own statement ALOT!)

Also, YOU spend almost more time here than Asguard! and you have kids and a husband! You should be one to stick your nose into this.




Playboy: You should just try and talk to Asguard again, he seems pretty cool. As another member said, it could be worse. Some men are fanatics about sports and watching them. Some are into playing Video/computer games...etc. At least you know where he is. It is not like he is hanging out at bars or strip clubs everynight.. NOW that would be bad. I think every relationship needs balance. Sometimes one partner may get caught up or carried away with someting, a little more than the other may like.
I suggest you 2 just talk things out in private and I hope you can work things out.

I ask you guys sort this outside of sciforum's.

Asguard, no matter how pissed you may be at her for writing here, don't get upset at her, she's just trying to communicate with you, it might be a good idea if you communicate back and explain how you feel, are you happy what direction you are going? do you think people are holding you back or putting you down? etc.

You guys need a real good heart to heart, talk to each other (No Yelling/Shouting or Whining, No fighting and definitely NO Violence, Take it in turns for one of you talk and the other listen.) You need to do this because obviously the real issues are being avoided and the issues being seen are something else entirely different.

As for the internet being so time consuming, well from my perspective I'm suppose to be decorating a room right now and well my 5 minutes has extended to 20-30mins right now because I don't like seeing things like relationship fall apart because of lack of communication or neglection.

I hope you guys can either sort it out or realise where you are in life and what directions you need to go. My best to both of you in what you do, btw Asguard if you need to pull your life together then you'd best be concentrating on that than Moderating here at Sciforum's, nobody would think bad of you for doing that but for cripes sake don't blame her for wanting your attention, she obviously still loves you even though she might say she doesn't.

P.s.
Don't let the posters here interfere with your lives.

*ranting against Orleander*



She has you on ignore. Why don't you try ignoring her as well? Then you can save yourself the trouble of reading her posts.

She has you on ignore. Why don't you try ignoring her as well? Then you can save yourself the trouble of reading her posts.

Well maybe bunny should just ignore her 2 bit cheering on advice too. It really doesn't help their situation.

Well maybe bunny should just ignore her 2 bit cheering on advice too. It really doesn't help their situation.

Neither did your rant, which implied MUCH worse things than what Orleander said. Just a suggestion.

Neither did your rant. Just a suggestion.

I at least offered some advice! Said to to talk in private, and I hope they can work this out.

I wasn't talking to you at all.

I never asked for or wanted your suggestions!

You want to make a suggestion here is one.

Maybe make a suggestion to certain members here not to get involved
and CHEER!! on throwing someone out of a relationship, when they know nothing about it!


Oh yeah what did I imply ?

/shakes head.

He would rather sit on here all day, and i mean LITERALLY, ALL DAY, than [...] talk to me ANYTHING.

Um, I think that means he doesn't like you anymore. Maybe he doesn't want you to know whether he goes to uni or interviews because he wants to cut you out of his life. Just let go, dear.

He wont even spare 10 minutes to have sex anymore.

Is that the standard in Australia?

He obviously doesn't love me more than this place.

He doesn't really love us either, mind you.

If you push this young man he may rebel. Use psychology on him, if you take away what he loves then you may become the 'bad guy'. We can push him over the edge so he gets banned...or we can ignore him....NOW where is he?:mad:

WOW! Asguard, your goose is cooked, here and elsewhere. Damn funny.

:bravo:

Can this dirty-laundry and schadenfruede please be either moved to Springerboards (http://springerboards.jerryspringertv.com/index.php?showforum=1) or deleted? Let's restore some respect for privacy.

Good idea

Don't let the posters here interfere with your lives.

What kind of advice is that? We are here to help!

I'll have to admit that I'm heavily addicted to the computer/internet/message boards/blogs/google/youtube/etc myself, but I've found ways of merging it with other activities. I think one thing that helps is being mobile, and multi-tasking. There's nothing wrong with being on the computer all the time as long as everything else is not being put on hold.

This is going to sound sick, but I carry my laptop everywhere I go........well......except to the beach (mainly because you can't see the screen in sunlight, and I'm scared of getting sand in my machine)

Whenever my wife and I plan a vacation, I always tell her to find hotels that offer free wifi.

I've also posted to this forum while sitting at a bar :D

I experience withdrawl whenever I spend too much time away from the net -depending on if what I'm doing is more interesting . I don't think I could reasonably turn down money, sex, or totally ignore my wife.

.....when the new hsdpa iPhone comes out this summer, my net-presence will probably reach close to 99% LOL........or maybe more if it supports tethering :bugeye:

Um Stryder, Plazma, JamesR, some of us have been trying to tell you that this guy was unstable for a while now. Could you at least appoint someone with the ability to speak English to be the temporary mod for a while so that Asguard can get out from under the bridge? It's nothing personal against him, but he's a bit of a joke as a moderator. I mean, this is an English speaking website. Is it too much to ask for the mods to know that, and be able to do it correctly?

This whole thread is an abortion.

S.A.M.

I did love him very much. I can only be ignored for so long though. And tonight was the last straw. Ive had enough and am over it to be perfectly honest.
And he has no-one to blame but himself. It's going to take a crap load of groveling for me to even LOOK at him now, let alone SPEAK to him. The fact i actually posted this on here should be enough for him to realize i am MAJORLY over it.

Instead, he will come on here, get defensive, call me, get aggressive, tell me it;s my fault, try and make me feel bad and ignore me until i call him and ask "for forgiveness".

Sorry asguard, not gonna happen this time, like it does every other time you do something wrong and i speak up about it. You can do the grovelling, you are the one who has done wrong dearie. I'm not going to give in.

Uh.. it's not cool to discuss this here Bunny..

Um Stryder, Plazma, JamesR, some of us have been trying to tell you that this guy was unstable for a while now. Could you at least appoint someone with the ability to speak English to be the temporary mod for a while so that Asguard can get out from under the bridge? It's nothing personal against him, but he's a bit of a joke as a moderator. I mean, this is an English speaking website. Is it too much to ask for the mods to know that, and be able to do it correctly?

This whole thread is an abortion.

Some of the best English here is "spoken" by ESLs

So, are you his wife or girlfriend?

Asguard averages 3.81 posts per day, which is very low. This "addiction" must be new.

That's a very misleading number, because he joined in 2002.

Between midnight Thursday and midnight last night, he posted 65 times.

Poor Asguard, today is the day of his come uppance. His whole world has come crashing down, he has been found out....poor chap must be walking the outback, pacing, kicking rocks. We need an intervention.

Some of the best English here is "spoken" by ESLs

I know that. Your English is perfect SAM but his is so bad it does really get confusing in some of the threads where he is participating and moderating.

pjdude1219 you stfu and mind ur business if you have a problem, noone forced you to read or reply to this.


This is the ONLY PLACE and the ONLY THING he will pay attention to, so i may as well use it to get my point across.

oh my bad i thought you were just another person bitching bout his modding sorry for the misunderstanding and i hope you get your point across may i suggest a pointy stick

I know that. Your English is perfect SAM but his is so bad it does really get confusing in some of the threads where he is participating and moderating.

I assume its similar for those who are expected to know perfect English as a second language by people who can't even manage one language on their own. Personally, I come from a country with over 200 languages, so I tend to look at ideas rather than punctuation.

I'll have to admit that I'm heavily addicted to the computer/internet/message boards/blogs/google/youtube/etc......

me too:bravo:

Am I the only person here who can't wait to see Asguard's reaction?

Asguard should realize that once you lose something it is gone forever. The forum will still be here but to give up playboy bunny??? he needs to think about it.

I think I'll go golfing.

Meanwhile, Playboy Bunny, tell us how you REALLY feel?

Join in anytime, Asguard.

:argue:

Is that unholy glee? :bugeye:

I'm locking this thread for now, too many people chirping in to upset the applecart further.