Are you lonely?

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by ProCop, Jun 1, 2003.

  1. ProCop Valued Senior Member

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    I have read in a paper that according to some research about the internet mostly the people who frequent the net are lonely. I wouldn't qualify myself as such, but who would?

    The article said that the internet was meant to be a middle of broad communication between the people but it turned out to be the platform of individuals who do not have many contacts in their communities.

    Is it so?
     
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  7. Killjoy Propelling The Farce!! Valued Senior Member

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    uh huh...:bugeye:
     
  8. DarkEyedBeauty Pirate. Registered Senior Member

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    In some ways...

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  9. Abdiel Registered Senior Member

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    I would say yeah, insomniacs, porn-lovers, wouldn't those two kinds of people fit into a lonely category?
     
  10. yesemina Registered Senior Member

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    I am alone pretty much all the time but I'm not lonely. I feel like I have just what I need. *Shrug*
     
  11. grimreaper Registered Senior Member

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    no just tired of the intelectuly chalnged.

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  12. Mrs.Lucysnow Valued Senior Member

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    No I don't think it is only lonlieness. I mean I just got off the phone with a friend but there are very few people whom I would call at 3am. A forum such as this is great because it allows one to enter into discussions that may not arise within ones circle of friends. There is a wide variety of people whom one can banter with and learn from, more people means more access to different ideas, its great! I do think that interacting over the net offers freedom from constraint. Very few people would 'flame' each other in a discussion while sitting across from another person, some would not admit to lonlienss, unhappiness, their love or hatred for something etc., but here we are without image. Oh and I like porn too but so do all the men in my life

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  13. Cowboy My Aim Is True Valued Senior Member

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    First off, being alone is not the same as being lonely.

    My reasons for browsing the internet are to get news/information I cannot get elsewhere (at least not as conveniently) and to make use of debate forums like SciForums. I love politics and philosophy and, unfortunately, most of my friends are apolitical and more interested in computers, sports and cars than philosophy.

    I think there probably are a lot of lonely people who turn to the internet for some sort of companionship, but arguing religion, gun control, race relations and economic policy doesn't seem like the sort of activities such a loner would engage in.
     
  14. wesmorris Nerd Overlord - we(s):1 of N Valued Senior Member

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    The internet is a tool for deintrovertification and the potential establishment of a small social group.

    I really only typed that because I wanted to use the word "deintrovertification" before I forgot I thought it was funny.

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  15. ~The_Chosen~ Registered Senior Member

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    Most likely, yep.

    Alot of people are lonely and I noticed they prefer to reside in cyberspace...lol

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  16. Jessie Registered Senior Member

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    Very likely.
     
  17. spuriousmonkey Banned Banned

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    The internet is also a tool to pass time at work.
     
  18. Dr Lou Natic Unnecessary Surgeon Registered Senior Member

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    I love being alone.
    I lived in a house with an "open door policy" for years. Friends would come to my house all day everyday, sometimes staying for weeks. Its started wearing very thin but I am a fairly "easy going" and would never tell anyone to fuck off. I silently put up with it for ages but now I live in a different city in a "fotress" of an apartment with a buzzer and locks and so on and I must say I love it so much. I revel in this newly found privacy. I'm over-compensating for the years I spent without it. I try to avoid friends and well anyone. I never take it for granted, I'm constantly relaxing and saying "aaaaaaaah

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    It is such a relief after living under those conditions for so long. I very rarely am awaken by someone farting on my face surrounded by laughing onlookers these days. Aaaaaah

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    If someone was observing my lifestyle they would think I was very lonely but do I sound lonely?

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  19. sargentlard Save the whales motherfucker Valued Senior Member

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    Me is not lonely just loves being alone....especially in me house.

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  20. airavata portentous Registered Senior Member

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    not at all. i come to this forum because of the wide range of issues discussed here.. and the fact that some of the sciforumers are *cough*, pretty intelligent and funny.
     
  21. Thor "Pfft, Rebel scum!" Valued Senior Member

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    I actually feel lonely when I'm online but other than that I am not lonely
     
  22. IXL777 mature with wisdom Registered Senior Member

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    "Have you got a cold?..I suggest you spend a week in your room convalescing..and contemplating lonliness

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  23. SoLiDUS OMGWTFBBQ Registered Senior Member

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    I wake up around 3-4PM and stay up until 7-8AM... so I'm alone
    for quite some time during the night. I've got my friends until 12
    and the internet until I fall in the arms of Morpeus (God of sleep
    you Matrix-loving ninny!).

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