You like your husband? Love your husband right?
What's up with the talk about "the only thing agreeable about him is the sex" "oh yeah? is everything else worth it just for the sex?"
Seriously. These comments mean something right?
Of course they do!
Are men seriously that tough to get along with? I would like to know.

Don't be afraid to tell me the truth though by the way?

..There was more, but I will leave it at that.

is agreement what a good relationship is?

J ust agree to whatever she says and your relationship will be just fine. ;)

agree to no sex - what are you gay?

J ust agree to whatever she says and your relationship will be just fine. ;)

I agree. You are right, you big strong handsome man you. :worship:

agree to no sex - what are you gay?

I never said anything about no sex. You asked is agreement what a

good relationship is if you recall.

this is a joke. i mean ok if u think that the perfect relationship is to agree on everything why is it the man that should make up the ground ?

I never said anything about no sex. You asked if you recall.

agree to whatever she says be just fine - what else could a man be so threatened by that makes him agree with his wife against his will ?:P

Relationships are unnatural. None of the other great apes have them.

this is a joke. i mean ok if u think that the perfect relationship is to agree on everything why is it the man that should make up the ground ?

Because women tend to be allot smarter than the man in most marriages. ;)

Because women tend to be allot smarter than the man in most marriages. ;)

I agree again, you genius! :worship:

Because women tend to be allot smarter than the man in most marriages. ;)

ofc

You see women have a very rare gift that men don't have but want all of

the time. :)

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You see women have a very rare gift that men don't have but want all of

the time. :)

With over 3 billion women on this planet, I wouldn't go so far as to call it rare.

Relationships are unnatural. None of the other great apes have them.None of the great apes? What about the grape apes?
http://www.grape-ape.com/images/grapeape1.jpg

Crazy as hell.

I'd always thought relationship with man & woman is entirely acceptable both ways.

Regardless, let's see how it goes.

Crazy as hell.

I'd always thought relationship with man & woman is entirely acceptable both ways.

Regardless, let's see how it goes.


How what goes? Can you explain your plan of action?

Australian natural born men are only in it for sex like a buddy root as they told me heaps of times even mates when i asked bout love they only want females for sex and thats it
so why should women be used by dummies in australia why not have a different culture or even colour atleast they will provide right and they will love them more than these idiots would
many women here are dumped cause they want more in a relationship instead of give give and bloody gove all the time
if a guy was so smart he would let the girl have what she wants it aint hurtin him
she would keep on with the love and he gets what he wants right
marriages are broken more here inaustralia than the rest of the world
so i would choose another guy from another country say likie muslims even atleast they stick by there women
and im in it for love not for themn wanting fucking sex
fuck the marriages i reckon
and pardon my bloody french

marriage is dumb too

With over 3 billion women on this planet, I wouldn't go so far as to call it rare.

I think you don't have the correct answer there. I wasn't thinking at all

about sex if that is what you were refering to as it very well seems. I was

refering to something called intuition,which men don't have but many women

do. They also have a way to heal you whenever you need help by listening

to you and doing what they can to help.

Marrage is dumb?

How does sciforum intend on influencing its members? By explaining that marrage is dumb. That is retarded. Express your opinion, but don't expect others to believe it.

Regardless. I see nothing wrong with man/woman marrage, and feel that they can get equally intimate. I simply feel that it is something of the case that some women say such horrible things.

Bah.

Game. Set. Plan.

Go for it.

How does sciforum intend on influencing its members?



It doesn't intend to. Only those wishing to gain knowledge and insight will

do so at their own desire, not because of any other thing.

Crazy as hell.

I'd always thought relationship with man & woman is entirely acceptable both ways.

Regardless, let's see how it goes.

I think you'll find it sometimes goes both ways. Why do some men have 'trophy wives'?

This is not always the case however. Yes there are women (and men) who stay with their spouses for one particular reason (eg. sex, the house, money, etc), and cannot agree or find happiness in the rest of it. I think you'd find most of those people to be quite shallow and selfish.

Agreed.

But what about the rest of them?

ct you call knowledge and insight equalling marrage is bad?

explain that!

ct you call knowledge and insight equalling marrage is bad?

explain that!

I never said that. Your implying that. I was saying that those who are here

will gain insight and knowledge on their own. not because of what someone

else says but will research what is said and verify things to gain knowledge.

I see. I suppose I was implying that. Sorry.

I see. I suppose I was implying that. Sorry.

No problem. Just try not to jump to conclusions about what you read until

you reread it a few times to grasp what it is saying better. Sometimes I find

myself doing that by reading what I think it is saying but not actually saying

at all. Same with people, if you don't understand what someone says then

ask them to repeat what they said or rephrase it better until you fully

understand what it is they are saying. :)

Women are really just rabid nymphomaniacs. :D:D:D

Women are really just rabid nymphomaniacs.

Where do you live! ;)

You like your husband? Love your husband right?
What's up with the talk about "the only thing agreeable about him is the sex" "oh yeah? is everything else worth it just for the sex?"
Seriously. These comments mean something right?
Of course they do!
Are men seriously that tough to get along with? I would like to know.

Don't be afraid to tell me the truth though by the way?

..There was more, but I will leave it at that.

I was only thinking yesterday why do I loves James so much - we do have great sex - we have a few of the same interests, but I never really talk to him how I talk to my other male friends.

For instance, my best friend Jim has just come back home from uni for Christmas and we talk for hours about so much different stuff - everything and anything, and I spend a lot of time with him when he's back home, and never struggle for conversation, it all naturally flows out, but with James I have to think about 'what should I talk to him about?'.

How come I never have the same conversations with my bf James like I do with my best friend Jim or any other male friends I have??? And I rarely see my bf James, he's a self employed carpenter so he's working really long hours all the time, specially at the moment, so he can have two weeks of for Christmas, but yet I still struggle for conversation, but im not bored with him at all, I love spending time with him.

Its really strange, because I wouldnt want a friend that I struggled to talk to, so how come I dont mind it with James, is it because the sex does all the talking for us (cheesy)?? :confused: :p

I think you don't have the correct answer there. I wasn't thinking at all

about sex if that is what you were refering to as it very well seems. I was

refering to something called intuition,which men don't have but many women

do. They also have a way to heal you whenever you need help by listening

to you and doing what they can to help.

I have to raise the bullshit flag on that one. Sorry, but "womens' intuition" is a myth. The closest thing you are referring to is someone's 'gut feeling'; and men and women alike have that. But even 'gut feelings' can be wrong sometimes.
If women's intuition was real, and worked, then there would be no divorces, no wife beaters or anything like that. Because their 'intuition' would tell them to steer clear of that guy. I know plenty of men and women who started dating someone, could have sworn that that person was the one, only to have that person leave them or they break up somewhere down the road.
Just because women are more in tune with their emotions (which can be a curse as much as a blessing), doesn't make them more intuitive than us.

Sometimes men change when they are married. The women choose who

they marry but end up with a piece of shit then they, the women , have to

get away from the man through a divorce. That is why the woman chooses

the man she marries not the man saying that he chooses the woman when

HE proposes to HER. If the woman made the right choice to start with then

the relationship goes sour what other way to get out other than divorce or

get her ass kicked all the time. Rarely do I hear of a woman beating a man up

in a marriage.

Sometimes men change when they are married.
And women don't??? :confused:

The women choose who

they marry but end up with a piece of shit then they, the women , have to

get away from the man through a divorce.
Then IMO, that's their choice and they should have to live with it.

That is why the woman chooses

the man she marries not the man saying that he chooses the woman when

HE proposes to HER.
Huh? :confused:


If the woman made the right choice to start with then

the relationship goes sour what other way to get out other than divorce or

get her ass kicked all the time. Rarely do I hear of a woman beating a man up

in a marriage.
So, why do you think women make the 'wrong' choices sometimes?
Hmmmm...could relying on their emotions too much (and not near enough common sense and logic) play any part in that?

And if we marry a man because it is logical to do so, you throw a fit that we are gold diggers.
Isn't it logical to marry a rich old man?

And if we marry a man because it is logical to do so, you throw a fit that we are gold diggers.
Isn't it logical to marry a rich old man?

Dude,

Notice how I said you use too much emotion.
That doesn't mean you should approach something with NO emotion.
You have seen and heard about all the shit that people do out of emotion, have you not? Myself included.
And no, it's not logical to marry a rich old man if you two have nothing in common and don't want to spend time around one another. If you don't love the person, why spend time with them?
There has to be a blend of reasoning and emotion.
Example, I have the hugest crush on one of the district managers that I do laptop PC support for. I do have feelings for her and I would date her in a heartbeat. She is having problems with her b/f and I'm pretty sure that I could date her. My emotional side says, 'why not?'
She lives in Dallas, Texas. I live in Nashville, TN. Logic says, 'you two live too far apart. ' It's pointless for you to move there and vice versa.
It sucks, but logic should, and did win this one.

Dude?? Seriously, you call women Dude??

I would love his money. I would be ever so nice to him. I could be as emotional as he needed me to be.
And it is very logical to marry someone for their money. Its cold hearted, but emotions don't get in the way. And if you don't spend time with them, then you don't fight. Logical again.
__________________________________________________ ___________

When Dan found out he was going to inherit a fortune when his sickly father died, he decided he needed a woman to enjoy it with.

So one evening he went to a singles bar where he spotted the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. Her natural beauty took his breath away.

"I may look like just an ordinary man," he said as he walked up to her "but in just a week or two, my father will die, and I'll inherit 20 million dollars.

"Impressed, the woman went home with him that evening and, three days later, she became his stepmother.

Dude?? Seriously, you call women Dude??
Yes, I even call my mom 'dude' sometimes.

I would love his money. I would be ever so nice to him. I could be as emotional as he needed me to be.
Then that would make you nothing but a glorified prostitute.

And it is very logical to marry someone for their money. Its cold hearted, but emotions don't get in the way. And if you don't spend time with them, then you don't fight. Logical again.
What part about when I said 'there must be a blend of logic/reasoning and emotion when it comes to relationships. Although there must be a blend, logic should be in the drivers' seat.

And I don't know of any guy who has the capability to care for and love a woman that would be with a woman that was only with him for his money.

...Although there must be a blend, logic should be in the drivers' seat....

good luck with that.

good luck with that.
I know. You're preaching to the choir, Dude. LOL
But I'd rather be alone than deal with an illogical, unreasonable person.
There are worse things than being alone.

I thought this article was pretty interesting and fits this thread pretty well.
http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/73762/why-men-don-t-talk/

Guys Are More Comfortable With Actions Than Feelings
Rather than talking about how he "feels," often a man would rather express his love by changing her oil, or bringing home a flower, or relinquishing control of the remote.

And when men do talk, they'd prefer to talk about actions rather than emotions. For instance, a lot of guys would choose to express their long-range faith in a relationship by talking about next summer's vacation plans, not by launching into a soliloquy about undying love.

What's up with the talk about "the only thing agreeable about him is the sex" "oh yeah? is everything else worth it just for the sex?" Are men seriously that tough to get along with? I would like to know.It doesn't seem to me that the women have really answered that question. It also seems to me that a lot of men have hijacked this thread when it wasn't directed at us.Relationships are unnatural. None of the other great apes have them.That is to be celebrated. What elevates us above the other animals is that we do not allow ourselves to be completely controlled by our nature. Civilization itself has been a ten-thousand year endeavor to override our pack-social instinct with reasoned and learned behavior.

Besides, the human brain case is so large that our children are born woefully underdeveloped in order to pass through the birth canal. As a result they require an order of magnitude longer period of nurturing than the young of other species. Human children have to have two committed parents or they would not survive to breeding age.Sometimes men change when they are married. The women choose who they marry but end up with a piece of shitAs someone succinctly put it: Both parties to a marriage are doomed to disappointment. He hopes she will never change; she hopes he will.

As someone succinctly put it: Both parties to a marriage are doomed to disappointment. He hopes she will never change; she hopes he will.


Very true.

I have to raise the bullshit flag on that one. Sorry, but "womens' intuition" is a myth. The closest thing you are referring to is someone's 'gut feeling'; and men and women alike have that. But even 'gut feelings' can be wrong sometimes.

doesn't make them more intuitive than us.

I think women's intuition is greater then men. You can call it gut feeling, intuition whatever, I think a womans is better. The thing is sometimes we don't follow our gut feelings because we don't want to really know about something that is bad.....even though we are right about it...

Does that make any sense? lol

And if we marry a man because it is logical to do so, you throw a fit that we are gold diggers.
Isn't it logical to marry a rich old man?

I would have no interest in a rich old man, no matter how much money he had.

I would have no interest in a rich old man, no matter how much money he had.

well good for you.

You would really marry a rich old man, even if you weren't attracted to him or loved him??

I don't like when men call women DUDE!
I have been called that, and I am excuse me do I look like a dude? :bugeye:

You would really marry a rich old man, even if you weren't attracted to him or loved him??

If I was going on logic alone and not being all emotional, of course. Marrying a man for money is logical.
Take emotions out of it, it becomes a business deal, not a love match.

and I don't like that Dude crap either. How many women do???

I don't mind it, I prefer Dudette though. :D

If I was going on logic alone and not being all emotional, of course. Marrying a man for money is logical.
Take emotions out of it, it becomes a business deal, not a love match.

and I don't like that Dude crap either. How many women do???

ahhhhhhh I don't think I could do that, I am a softie when it comes to love and all that crap lol

Didn't he say he called his mom Dude? OMG my mom would have smacked me if i did that lol

ahhhhhhh I don't think I could do that, I am a softie when it comes to love and all that crap lol

Didn't he say he called his mom Dude? OMG my mom would have smacked me if i did that lol

well Mike was saying women used too much emotion and not enough logic. I say if you are logical, you become a gold digger. He has more than once stated his opinion on those women.
women are damned either way I guess. :shrug:

My daughter called me Dude once. All conversation and motion in the house came to a screeching halt. My son and husband looked at her like she lost her mind. I just looked at her with one eyebrow raised. She corrected herself.

well Mike was saying women used too much emotion and not enough logic. I say if you are logical, you become a gold digger. He has more than once stated his opinion on those women.
women are damned either way I guess. :shrug:

My daughter called me Dude once. All conversation and motion in the house came to a screeching halt. My son and husband looked at her like she lost her mind. I just looked at her with one eyebrow raised. She corrected herself.

I think my son did once, not even thinking. I gave him a look too and said, "listen I am not one of your little friends" Sorry mom it was never said again lol

Sup dude.

You want to fall in love with a guy? Why. I wonder what your Nietzsche would think about this thread :/

Sup dude.

You want to fall in love with a guy? Why. I wonder what your Nietzsche would think about this thread :/

Hey DUDE! Where did I say I wanted to fall in love with a guy???? :confused:

I thought u wanted to fall in love with nietzsche or something????

I thought u wanted to fall in love with nietzsche or something????

I am already in love with him :confused:

Sorry. Didn't know.
;)

Sorry. Didn't know.
;)

why did you want him for yourself or something? lol

hmmm... Maybe?

Human children have to have two committed parents or they would not survive to breeding age.

BS.

BS.
I think he's referring to in the state of nature.

As Fraggle mentioned, human infants are all but helpless for an extended period of time. To raise them requires an enormous effort. Keeping males around to help with this confers a powerful survival advantage.

The fact that human females hide their ovulation, and have visible breasts all the time suggests that sex is used for more than reproduction in the human species. They are receptive to sex even when there's no possibility of reproduction.

Why? Clearly this was an adaptation by human females which enabled them to tempt us with their feminine wiles. Human males stay around for the sex. While they're there, they help out with the kids, hunt for food, and protect the females and children.

I think he's referring to in the state of nature.

As Fraggle mentioned, human infants are all but helpless for an extended period of time. To raise them requires an enormous effort. Keeping males around to help with this confers a powerful survival advantage.

The fact that human females hide their ovulation, and have visible breasts all the time suggests that sex is used for more than reproduction in the human species. They are receptive to sex even when there's no possibility of reproduction.

Why? Clearly this was an adaptation by human females which enabled them to tempt us with their feminine wiles. Human males stay around for the sex. While they're there, they help out with the kids, hunt for food, and protect the females and children.
In nature, human mothers never lived in isolation with their infants, there was always a family to support them. I haven't read about human evolution for a while, but I don't believe or brains grew to their current size very early in the advent(I don't think we lived for very long 'in nature' with our current predicament of underdevelped infant brains). Unless you're talking about protecting them from other members of the pack, which you must know wasn't halted by civilization. Think of a father or a step-father who beats his children. It was pretty prevalent until relatively recently, wasn't it? Didn't fathers often die in wars in antiquity, and weren't their a lot of bastard children? I don't disagree tht having two parents makes survival(and success in modern times) more likely, but I don't believe the a child necessarilly has to(or ever has had to) have two parents in order to survive to breeding age.

I don't disagree tht having two parents makes survival(and success in modern times) more likely, but I don't believe the a child necessarilly has to(or ever has had to) have two parents in order to survive to breeding age.We're basically in agreement. Of course it's possible for a child to survive without two parents. It does, however, present a disadvantage. The nature of human sexuality is good evidence of that fact. As is a stroll thru any US inner city.

hmmm... Maybe?

It will cost you lol

....Didn't fathers often die in wars in antiquity, and weren't their a lot of bastard children? I don't disagree tht having two parents makes survival(and success in modern times) more likely, but I don't believe the a child necessarilly has to(or ever has had to) have two parents in order to survive to breeding age.

which makes it logical to marry an old man with money. Money is security for the woman and the children.

It will cost you lol

gold digger LOL

gold digger LOL

No more like Pimp :D LOL

I have something better than money that ALL women want!! ;)

I have something better than money that ALL women want!! ;)

Credit Cards? or Dried..urmmmmmmmm .............Apples LMAO

I have something better than money that ALL women want!! ;)

better than money??? Is that possible?? :p

Credit Cards? or Dried..urmmmmmmmm .............Apples LMAO

Credit Cards...YOU WIN!! :D:bravo:

I am smarter then I look LOL :o

I am smarter then I look LOL :o

But you did think about my apples didn't you! :spank:

But you did think about my apples didn't you! :spank:

It's your trademark!! lol

It's your trademark!! lol

They are very tasty apples, you do know they are called ...DELISHOUS

don't you? :D ;)

Anyway.
Uh... I can't believe how this thread is going.
You guys are talking about money being the best thing. Hell. Money doesn't really matter to me. Find whoever you want the most, but be successful. If you are after money- and it is your most valuable thing- and you are a woman- you are a fool.

I don't care about money.....I care about whats in my heart :o

And that is nietzschefan?

Thread ..closed?

And that is nietzschefan?

Thread ..closed?

Yes he drives me fuking nuts sometimes, but I love him :)

You like your husband? Love your husband right?
What's up with the talk about "the only thing agreeable about him is the sex" "oh yeah? is everything else worth it just for the sex?"
Seriously. These comments mean something right?
Of course they do!
Are men seriously that tough to get along with? I would like to know.

Don't be afraid to tell me the truth though by the way?

..There was more, but I will leave it at that.

yes men can be EXTREMLY hard to get along with, they are just so damn awkward,

i mean i love my husband, but he can be a chore,

thx for admitting the obvious.

As they say, a marrage is ... what is it? The mans oath to his wife, and the wifes "walk of death" .. what was it? I feel that everyone else on this planet has no respect what so fucking ever for such things.

I mean---------------- COME ON!!!
You don't need to be a dumbass criminal. You don't need to be a goof ball. ... lol. For certain, you should find a woman who you love- I just don't see all of the absurdity in it all. Sure, we have our differences, man and woman. But a man and a woman can fall in love- it makes a huge lot of sense. Of course however some might criticize me saying that I myself make no sense. While the truth is that I do at least somewhat, if not entirely. Regardless. We've got do deal with the shit.

The point of this thread was, to find out some of the seeking questions obviously. To find out how women in actuallity feel and to discuss some of the traits common to both as has been done. But it is also sort of irrelevant! :/

thx for admitting the obvious.

As they say, a marrage is ... what is it? The mans oath to his wife, and the wifes "walk of death" .. what was it? I feel that everyone else on this planet has no respect what so fucking ever for such things.

I mean---------------- COME ON!!!
You don't need to be a dumbass criminal. You don't need to be a goof ball. ... lol. For certain, you should find a woman who you love- I just don't see all of the absurdity in it all. Sure, we have our differences, man and woman. But a man and a woman can fall in love- it makes a huge lot of sense. Of course however some might criticize me saying that I myself make no sense. While the truth is that I do at least somewhat, if not entirely. Regardless. We've got do deal with the shit.

The point of this thread was, to find out some of the seeking questions obviously. To find out how women in actuallity feel and to discuss some of the traits common to both as has been done. But it is also sort of irrelevant! :/

i have been married for 16yrs and boy, i can do less for manslaughter!

i dont regret getting married one bit, but men can on the whole be like big kids,

hmmm what do u mean? i can do less for manslaughter?
rn't big kids cool :D

i dont regret getting married one bit, but men can on the whole be like big kids,

As the saying goes,"the only difference between men and boyz are just the prices of their toyz!".

As the saying goes,"the only difference between men and boyz are just the prices of their toyz!".

lol yeah true enough!

at the minute i am not talking to my husband very much :mad:

I don't care about money.....I care about whats in my heart :o

Well, I have 2 kids. I care about money.

Luci, what happened. Did he set the lawn on fire? ;)

Well, I have 2 kids. I care about money.

Luci, what happened. Did he set the lawn on fire? ;)

no, i had to take in my christmas presant today and he said open the parcel to see if it was for tasha, but it was 2 more pairs of converse he got me for christmas, thats 4 pairs he has got me for christmas now and he wont let me have them, he honestly thought they were for my daughter :mad: :bawl: