My ex girlfriend dumped me cause she was in love with this other guy. Now, I think that they are going to seperate cause I heard she isn't happy. I'm going to try to get back with her again. My question is, when a guy wants to get back with a girl, what is the best strategy?

PLEASE answer just that last question, leave all judgement calls based upon whether I should want to or not to yourselves, or how it is best to move on, or all that junk, JUST tell me your honest opinion on how to get back w/ a girl, no matter how unlikely, thankyou.

My question is, when a guy wants to get back with a girl, what is the best strategy?

Go out with her best friend ;)

peace

c20

ok, SHE dumped YOU.

do you really want her??...errr okaaaaay then. it's your life

i would then say. dont try. act nonchalent.
i have found that repulsion can attract

Ask her. Why the hell play any silly-assed games ....you knew her well before she dumped you, so you should know how to talk to her. If not, ....?

The obvious question you want to ask yourself, however, is ....why did she dump you the FIRST time? If she had a good reason, has that reason changed?

Baron Max

http://www.savemyass.com/home

Don't go back to her, let her come to you if she really wants you.

Don't go back to her (Plenty of Fish in the Sea), and don't let her come back to you (she broke up with YOU! You can't trust her).

I was going to say that after she came back, that is to dump her after she came back IF she did. I don't think she will.

Maybe she wants to come back to him temporarily to exploit something he has?

And then leave if it is gone or a bigger supply has shown up somewhere else.

Flowers,
many, many, flowers on a regular basis is the answer. Chocolate, too.

Usually the best strategy is no strategy, unless you are faced by an immediate opposing strategy by the other party

My ex girlfriend dumped me cause she was in love with this other guy. Now, I think that they are going to seperate cause I heard she isn't happy. I'm going to try to get back with her again. My question is, when a guy wants to get back with a girl, what is the best strategy?
Don't. Why be with someone that doesn't want to be with you? It's not worth it!

My God, do people never learn?

Even TruthSeeker agrees. One-sided love is not worth it.

This reminds me of a hillbilly soap. Don't bother with her because she will then go back to the new person.

http://www.savemyass.com/home

This is the highest and best use of the internet.

Why did it take us so long to come up with this?

So here's the plan...

Steal some of the DNA of the person she is in love with. Clone his DNA, accelerate the growth of the body to his present age, and then transfer your consciousness into the freshly grown body. Kill the real guy, get rid of his body, and BAM you are back in.

OOoooh yeahhhHH.

PLEASE answer just that last question, leave all judgement calls based upon whether I should want to or not to yourselves

Why do you beg for this? Is it because it will only affirm what you know to be right against the threadbare hope that she might find you attractive again?

I think it would be pertinent for you to explain what is so special about her that you would seek to pursue her against the common advice given here based upon the fact that she dumped you. If we can get under your skin maybe we will agree it is worth the pursuit and put more motivation into coming up with workable suggestions.

peace

c20

http://www.savemyass.com/home


I wouldn't use this type of service for you only want to send flowers AFTER you did something wrong. So if you send her flowers all the time then she will think you are up to no good all the time. Very bad idea if you ask me.

So here's the plan...

Steal some of the DNA of the person she is in love with. Clone his DNA, accelerate the growth of the body to his present age, and then transfer your consciousness into the freshly grown body. Kill the real guy, get rid of his body, and BAM you are back in.

OOoooh yeahhhHH.
Huuuuummm....
Very creative.......


...
Let's make a movie! :D

Yaba Daba! :m:

I don't really want her back that much. She was really great at first, but towards the end of the relationship and after, she's been a b*tch, even though she said she wanted to be friends. I honestly don't think that I'd feel guilty about cheating on her a$$ if we did get together again at this point. I think that the best strategy, the one I'm implementing right now, is just not to talk to her or be around her. If she breaks up with this jacka$$ I'll move in, and if not, then I'll just keep on playin' until I end up with someone else eventually. Do you all think that this is the best strategy, or would I stand a better chance after they broke up if I kept up communication? And if so, then what KIND of communication?

By the way she SAID she dumped me cause of all the sh*t that was going on in her life, then later on I found out it was cause this punk up in bootcamp who had been a high school love had written her a letter or something and a week after we're broken up BOOM they're thinking about getting engaged! But word on the street is that he isn't a very good bf, according to her anyway. So yeah.

Frisbinator,


What is it exactly that attracts you to this girl so much?

You don't talk to her and yet you know her opinions about her boyfriend? :bugeye:

I don't really want her back that much.
Great! Now let's move on.

Yaba Daba :m:

If she breaks up with this jacka$$ I'll move in, and if not, then I'll just keep on playin' until I end up with someone else eventually.

The guy didn't do anything wrong her i presume. She broke up with you. You shouldn't be angry with the guy. He just did what every man does when he falls into the female trap.

Forget about her by having another girlfriend.

I did not post this topic asking if you people think I should move on. I'll inevitably move on whether we get back together or not, I'm moving on right now far as I'm concerned.

All that I wanted were some ideas on how to get a girl back, THATS IT. NOT advice on whether I should "move on" or not, I'm sick and tired of hearing that.

But don't even worry about THAT anymore, today the final gigantic nail was placed in the coffin: She went to visit this guy in Georgia a couple weeks ago and I found out this morning: she is PREGNATIO! Serves her right if you ask me!

-CASE CLOSED-

Well, sometimes you have to tell someone something he or she doesn't want to hear.

So move on.

Maybe he just wanted to get his cock sucked a few more times, or hate fuck her or something.

Ah well, the bitch now is full of baby.