View Full Version : After sex "disgust"


dixonmassey
12-16-06, 02:43 AM
Well, disgust could be too strong of a word to use, but I don't know any better. Why would (some) men feel not quite at their best after they've completed the mission? One girl told me that true love is when sex partners don't feel "disgust" after sex. What could cause such feelings and how prevalent they are?

TimeTraveler
12-16-06, 02:48 AM
Well, disgust could be too strong of a word to use, but I don't know any better. Why would (some) men feel not quite at their best after they've completed the mission? One girl told me that true love is when sex partners don't feel "disgust" after sex. What could cause such feelings and how prevalent they are?

True love? How do you know it even exists?
If it does exist it has nothing to do with sex.

SheDevil
12-16-06, 03:16 AM
Well, disgust could be too strong of a word to use, but I don't know any better. Why would (some) men feel not quite at their best after they've completed the mission? One girl told me that true love is when sex partners don't feel "disgust" after sex. What could cause such feelings and how prevalent they are?


The girl is speaking from her own personal experience. This is not a universal norm.

The VAST majority of people having sex regardless of being in love or not do not feel disgust afterwards.

Some married women may feel like that if they are only having sex with their husband because it is expected of them, a 'duty' fulfilled. It makes them feel like hookers.

swivel
12-16-06, 05:38 AM
It is an evolutionary device, developed after thousands of generations of male-female interaction. It is designed to save the life of early man, and it still works to this effect today. You see, when man feels that disgust after sex, it motivates him to get his ass back to his wife as quickly as possible before she finds out and cuts his dick off. The men that did not have this random mutation had fewer children since they had fewer dicks. The advantage was so great that it completely took over and survives with us today.

And now, in a modern culture with birth control, it continues to save male lives. Now, as soon as you have had intercourse, your disgust makes you slide out of bed, don your attire, and make sure that you aren't there in the morning. This way, the female never acquires your phone number, and therefore does not hound you to fucking death.

tablariddim
12-16-06, 06:09 AM
It simply means that after completing the mission and the hormones have withered to normal levels, you realise that you must have been stupid, drunk or both to even contemplate having sex with that particular person. I've never felt revulsion after a session with my wife, if anything I feel more loving.

Mosheh Thezion
12-16-06, 03:19 PM
ITS NOT DISGUST.... its satisfaction... coupled with a lack of desire.

the desire is gone... for a while....

this is nessasary.... otherwise... humans would have sex all day.. everyday.

they would never stop... sex... would dominate their lives...
instead of making up a small, awesome % of it.

i dont believe there is disgust.... is just over. FOR ATLEAST A FEW HOURS.



-MT

draqon
12-16-06, 03:23 PM
Well, disgust could be too strong of a word to use, but I don't know any better. Why would (some) men feel not quite at their best after they've completed the mission? One girl told me that true love is when sex partners don't feel "disgust" after sex. What could cause such feelings and how prevalent they are?

Hormone regulation in the human biochemical body is malfunctioning.

Ragnarok
12-16-06, 04:40 PM
Hmmmm, i just feel sleepy. And a little hungry. Never disgusted though. If you feel disgust, maybe you should re-evaluate the relationship. (by 'you' i mean the disgusted one.)

Fraggle Rocker
12-16-06, 04:51 PM
Anyone who feels so strongly negative after having sex is either doing it wrong or doing it with the wrong person. I can understand regret, disappointment, shame, but disgust? Especially for a man. Sex is somewhat more mental and emotional and somewhat less physical for women, at least that's what most of them say, so if the guy acts like a jerk or a doofus or a little boy or a preacher or a pervert or a whatever, I can imagine them feeling disgust.

francois
12-16-06, 05:06 PM
I've never felt disgust. I imagine it'll happen sooner or later. I've only done like 5 women.

Bells
12-16-06, 05:08 PM
Well, disgust could be too strong of a word to use, but I don't know any better. Why would (some) men feel not quite at their best after they've completed the mission? One girl told me that true love is when sex partners don't feel "disgust" after sex. What could cause such feelings and how prevalent they are?
They might not feel at their best because they are tired, want to sleep, feel satisfied and just want to sleep when she might not, etc. They might feel, as Fraggle pointed out, regret, embarrassment or even shame, but I am not too sure about disgust.

Disgust means feeling somewhat repulsed.

If you are feeling that badly after sex, then maybe something is not quite right.

invert_nexus
12-16-06, 05:15 PM
It's a communist plot of the worst kind.

Provided are genuine military transcripts:
General Jack D. Ripper: Mandrake, do you realize that in addition to fluoridating water, why, there are studies underway to fluoridate salt, flour, fruit juices, soup, sugar, milk... ice cream. Ice cream, Mandrake, children's ice cream.

Group Capt. Lionel Mandrake: Lord, Jack.

General Jack D. Ripper: You know when fluoridation first began?

Group Capt. Lionel Mandrake: I... no, no. I don't, Jack.

General Jack D. Ripper: Nineteen hundred and forty-six. Nineteen forty-six, Mandrake. How does that coincide with your post-war Commie conspiracy, huh? It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hard-core Commie works.

Group Capt. Lionel Mandrake: Uh, Jack, Jack, listen, tell me, tell me, Jack. When did you first... become... well, develop this theory?

General Jack D. Ripper: Well, I, uh... I... I... first became aware of it, Mandrake, during the physical act of love.

Group Capt. Lionel Mandrake: Hmm.

General Jack D. Ripper: Yes, a uh, a profound sense of fatigue... a feeling of emptiness followed. Luckily I... I was able to interpret these feelings correctly. Loss of essence.

Group Capt. Lionel Mandrake: Hmm.

General Jack D. Ripper: I can assure you it has not recurred, Mandrake. Women uh... women sense my power and they seek the life essence. I, uh... I do not avoid women, Mandrake.

Group Capt. Lionel Mandrake: No.

General Jack D. Ripper: But I... I do deny them my essence.


The moral of the story? One should come to terms with this simple fact of nature and learn to love the bomb.

Mr. G
12-16-06, 11:29 PM
After sex "disgust"
Hopefully you don't consider masturbation to be sex.

You couldn't be so disgusting?

;)

leopold99
12-16-06, 11:38 PM
Well, disgust could be too strong of a word to use, but I don't know any better. What could cause such feelings and how prevalent they are?
i've never felt disgusted after sex. i've scratched my head a few times wondering about my judgement though.

If it does exist it has nothing to do with sex.
it sounds like you've actually been there.

Crunchy Cat
12-17-06, 12:29 AM
It is an evolutionary device, developed after thousands of generations of male-female interaction. It is designed to save the life of early man, and it still works to this effect today. You see, when man feels that disgust after sex, it motivates him to get his ass back to his wife as quickly as possible before she finds out and cuts his dick off. The men that did not have this random mutation had fewer children since they had fewer dicks. The advantage was so great that it completely took over and survives with us today.

And now, in a modern culture with birth control, it continues to save male lives. Now, as soon as you have had intercourse, your disgust makes you slide out of bed, don your attire, and make sure that you aren't there in the morning. This way, the female never acquires your phone number, and therefore does not hound you to fucking death.

Interesting. I am utterly missing this mutation... fortunately my member is still in tact.

Fraggle Rocker
12-17-06, 06:39 AM
Interesting. I am utterly missing this mutation... fortunately my member is still in tact.Shouldn't this be in the Forum "About The Members"?

swivel
12-17-06, 01:15 PM
Interesting. I am utterly missing this mutation... fortunately my member is still in tact.

Tact? Is that a typo? I thought your boyfriend was named Taft?

original
12-17-06, 01:33 PM
Sometimes after sex I would feel wrong or gross about it, not because of the sheen of fluids coating our bodies, but perhaps it was the person I was with or the sex we had. It felt like we were animals. Not passionate, lusty animals with kinky ideas and nimble fingers, it was more like two dogs fucking until we were done. It was probably my fault because I'm introverted and even though I wanted to try almost everything possible, I never spoke about it or tried to lead our relationship in any direction.

In fact, the girl I was with was my first sexual partner, and I always demanded that our relationship was not that of a "boyfriend/girlfriend", but more like "two friends who like to fuck". That probably didn't help. I never found her to be exceptionally attractive, I didn't like her attitude at times and her family was quite different than most, but the relationship lasted a year.

I tell you though, if I had a sexual relationship with a girl I now know, the word disgust wouldn't even exist when she is there.

phonetic
12-17-06, 02:00 PM
I've been a bit disgusted after sex sometimes. An animalistic urge takes over, then when it's over you want to be clean, somewhere else and doing something else, unless you care for the person of course. That makes the difference.

The last time I was particularly disgusted because I was in a tent with some girl I'd met a couple of hours before and the bitch stole my sleeping bag. And she wasn't much of a looker.

outlandish
12-17-06, 02:12 PM
Well, disgust could be too strong of a word to use, but I don't know any better. Why would (some) men feel not quite at their best after they've completed the mission? One girl told me that true love is when sex partners don't feel "disgust" after sex. What could cause such feelings and how prevalent they are?
it's not uncommon.
after a particularly vigorous session I feel physically sick after "climax" and can't even look at the girl, but once the batteries are recharged I'm fine.

I think it's physiological rather than emotional.

Crunchy Cat
12-17-06, 02:22 PM
Shouldn't this be in the Forum "About The Members"?

Sure, I'll post a section where I don't feel disgust after sex and my dick hasn't been cut off either.

Crunchy Cat
12-17-06, 02:25 PM
Tact? Is that a typo? I thought your boyfriend was named Taft?

You're not my boyfriend anymore so that would be incorrect... 'member?

in·tact /ɪnˈtækt/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[in-takt] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–adjective 1. not altered, broken, or impaired; remaining uninjured, sound, or whole; untouched; unblemished: The vase remained intact despite rough handling.
2. not changed or diminished; not influenced or swayed: Despite misfortune, his faith is still intact.
3. complete or whole, esp. not castrated or emasculated.
4. having the hymen unbroken; virginal.

Roman
12-17-06, 03:51 PM
I've definitely experienced the disgust. She's all 'let's cuddle' and I'm looking for my clothes and trying to head for the door.

Ugh.

EmptyForceOfChi
12-17-06, 09:50 PM
ITS NOT DISGUST.... its satisfaction... coupled with a lack of desire.

the desire is gone... for a while....

this is nessasary.... otherwise... humans would have sex all day.. everyday.

they would never stop... sex... would dominate their lives...
instead of making up a small, awesome % of it.

i dont believe there is disgust.... is just over. FOR ATLEAST A FEW HOURS.



-MT



i think i agree with this,


peace.

valich
12-17-06, 11:28 PM
Yes, if it's digust, then how do you explain having sex 5 or 6 times in one night? It's digusting that you feel disgust. You've got a problem.

heliocentric
12-17-06, 11:47 PM
Ive never felt disgust after sex, a one night stand i might, but ive never had one of those so i wouldnt know.
I do feel ait daft/disgusted after masturbation though haha.

Chatha
12-18-06, 09:34 AM
The most disgusting thought of all is that everything in life happens after sex, sooner or later.

Extraordinary quote

outlandish
12-18-06, 01:10 PM
I've definitely experienced the disgust. She's all 'let's cuddle' and I'm looking for my clothes and trying to head for the door.

Ugh.
well theres not much time inbetween "appointments".
she has to freshen up, take a breather, make sure there's fresh towels on the bed, enough lube and condoms etc.

Roman
12-18-06, 05:16 PM
Yes, if it's digust, then how do you explain having sex 5 or 6 times in one night? It's digusting that you feel disgust. You've got a problem.

Depends who it's with.

Roman
12-18-06, 05:17 PM
well theres not much time inbetween "appointments".
she has to freshen up, take a breather, make sure there's fresh towels on the bed, enough lube and condoms etc.

Ohhh... you have to pay for sex. I'm sorry.