I don't know if I could do it. I mean EVERY DAY???? Would it make it more boring or more exciting knowing that you'll be having sex? I know I'd give it a shot. Gonna talk to the hubby. :)


Pastor issues sex challenge (http://www.myfoxtampabay.com/myfox/pages/Home/Detail;jsessionid=8BF8862B8DDB114CFB8C769376B0FD75 ?contentId=5781468&version=1&locale=EN-US&layoutCode=TSTY&pageId=1.1.1&sflg=1)

TAMPA - A pastor has a new challenge for his parishioners. It involves sex - a subject that may be taboo in many congregations.

The Relevant Church in Tampa's Ybor City has issued a 30-day sex challenge.

"It's going to be tempting and awkward at the same time for sure," said parishioner Brent Cayson.

Single men and women can't have sex for 30 days, and married couples are urged to have it every day.

"If you look at studies, studies say in 30 days you can develop a habit," said Pastor Paul Wirth.

It definitely caught wives in the church by surprise.

"Our married people are far more fearful than our single people," said Wirth.

"Sex is about more than intercourse and that's what we're trying to tell people," said church member Jarret Haas.

Wirth has found biblical references that he says suggest Jesus disapproved of pre-marital sex and promoted sex in marriage. So, he believes people connect to God through life-long commitment.

That's why he tells his single followers to abstain, and his married followers to indulge.

Wirth is a former Baptist. He founded his non-denominational ministry three years ago. And he markets his church by tackling unusual or controversial topics.

umm orleander, im wondering if you belive this would work?

Increasing the married peoples sex life, well so what

As for abstaining for 30 days "curing" pre marital sex its a load of crap. Look at people in the millarty, do they "give up" sex after they have been deployed or do they fuck like rabits the second they walk through the door?

I'm not married, and I've already completed that challenge many times over...

Technically I am not married. I think living with someone for 5 yrs though qualifies.

Technically I am not married. I think living with someone for 5 yrs though qualifies.

Nope, not according to the church. Its why I said 'THIS challenge'. You are not married so no sex for 30 days. Could you do it or would you fail?

umm orleander, im wondering if you belive this would work?

Increasing the married peoples sex life, well so what

As for abstaining for 30 days "curing" pre marital sex its a load of crap. Look at people in the millarty, do they "give up" sex after they have been deployed or do they fuck like rabits the second they walk through the door?

Why do you have to piss all over this. :mad:
Could you do it or not?

HA im in the same position as shorty and it would have to do with my mood. We have gone almost a month before without having sex and then fucked twice a day 5 days a week at other times.:p

orleander, why would i want to?

HA im in the same position as shorty and it would have to do with my mood. We have gone almost a month before without having sex and then fucked twice a day 5 days a week at other times.:p

LOL Sounds familar :eek:

I'm not married, and I've already completed that challenge many times over...

congratulations!!! :thankyou: That makes you a winner and not a loser like all those girls say (j/k ;) )

I can't wait to find out if darksidzz and draqons could do it. I think it could go either way.

orleander, why would i want to?

so that's a no.

orleander, why would i want to?

All I want to know is the Church going to come over and wash all the sheets? :D

I'd like to know what they do with the journals after the month is up.

I think its nice that a church is doing this. Usually sex is NOT talked about.

Been there done that.

I could do it. I'm not married. I do it all of the time, because of the research projects I participate in. Sometimes they call for me to do stuff like that all of the time.

I was wondering, don't some religions think sex with a woman on her period is wrong? I would think these people would be having sex even on those days.

talking about sex is good, it shouldnt be something that has to be hiden. Preaching abstance is stupid because we are hard wired to have sex

Shorty i have herd that the alter in a catholic church or the pews in an Anglican one are GREAT places to have sex:p

The confessional is too if you want some privacy:p

Course you cant really beat a blow job in the back while mass is on:D

talking about sex is good, it shouldnt be something that has to be hiden. Preaching abstance is stupid because we are hard wired to have sex

Shorty i have herd that the alter in a catholic church or the pews in an Anglican one are GREAT places to have sex

The confessional is too if you want some privacy

Course you cant really beat a blow job in the back while mass is on

I think a couple going without sex for 30 days is a good thing. Can you imagine day 31? Its gonna be HOT! (fast, but hot). You have to find other ways to be affectionate and communicate.

And having sex in a church is HORRIBLE. :mad: How disrespectful could a person be? It would be like coming home and finding strangers having sex on my bed.

God would probably be pleased if you had sex in "his house" (as long as your married) since he and his son (who is also him) encourage it so much, but do you have to be married in spirit or does a legal marriage count too?

And having sex in a church is HORRIBLE. How disrespectful could a person be? It would be like coming home and finding strangers having sex on my bed.

How would that not be awesome?...well I guess if tey were fatties or ugos I would be pissed but otherwise !!! AWESOME!

Pretty sure its legally married.

Can't wait til gay people can be married everywhere. They would be horrified to think of them as having sex everyday (which they probably think they do anyways, they are so fixated on it)

How would that not be awesome?...well I guess if tey were fatties or ugos I would be pissed but otherwise !!! AWESOME!

Its disrespectful. have sex on a park picnic table, not a church alter. Or a clothing store changing room, not a confessional.

Its disrespectful. have sex on a park picnic table, not a church alter. Or a clothing store changing room, not a confessional.

I call it a cumfessional ;) wait...too far......:(

A minisiter at my school said that you must be married before the Lord in order to be considered married in the eyes of the Lord. But I guess this is a pretty progressive church. And thats good cause I don't want to get married in a church, if I get married.

Shorty i have herd that the alter in a catholic church or the pews in an Anglican one are GREAT places to have sex

The confessional is too if you want some privacy:p

Course you cant really beat a blow job in the back while mass is on:D

:roflmao:

Nope, not according to the church. Its why I said 'THIS challenge'. You are not married so no sex for 30 days. Could you do it or would you fail?

I've been not doing it much longer than that!:eek:

who cares if your married or not. Ive been with my partner 5 years in april, we live together and we are legally defacto. Im not going to let some church nut say we shouldnt fuck like rabbits if we feel like it:D

so that's a no.

who cares if your married or not. Ive been with my partner 5 years in april, we live together and we are legally defacto. Im not going to let some church nut say we shouldnt fuck like rabbits if we feel like it:D

:thumbsup: lol

How would that not be awesome?...

It might not be too awesome when it is 2 hookers and her husband! :eek:

LOL, her husband? Is she a siamese twin?

a two for one special. I think I would get sick of it if I had to have sex everyday for a month. I actually don't think people's bodies are made to "indulgde" that often. I need my sleep.

shorty who needs the bed, kitchen benches are more fun:p

shorty who needs the bed, kitchen benches are more fun:p

I think this whole topic has got you a little randy LMAO

I am unmarried. If "success" means "not having sex for 30 days" (which, over the course of most of my adult life, I would have categorized as "failure"), then of course I could do it if I wanted to.

I am not sure why I would want to, and absolutely know that "success" would not make abstinence a habit, though.

If I were married, the notion that "we need to have sex because the pastor told us to" would creep me out to no end.

Its not an order, its a challenge. If you don't want to take part in it, you don't have to.

shorty, unfortunatly she is still asleep so no joy:p

Evidently Gary Coleman was a virgin until 2006!

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/showbiz/showbiznews.html?in_article_id=514155&in_page_id=1773

Evidently Gary Coleman was a virgin until 2006!

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/showbiz/showbiznews.html?in_article_id=514155&in_page_id=1773

There is a Gary Coleman thread ya know :P
http://www.sciforums.com/showthread.php?t=77585&highlight=coleman

ahh

Never!!! I need sex!!!

I now sound like some male-nimpho.

every day can get tedious....3-4 times a week would be ideal...once a fortnight wouldn't be bad...once in a friggin year would be sweet...after 4 years of no go i've given up.

It sounds like i need to hook you up with a prozzi friends :)

... Camaran Diaz perhaps..

.. Even i can say she has dazzling irasis...

I used to have sex several times a day, everyday, for practically months.

every day can get tedious....3-4 times a week would be ideal...once a fortnight wouldn't be bad...once in a friggin year would be sweet...after 4 years of no go i've given up.

huh 4 yrs???? Aren't you married?

I used to have sex several times a day, everyday, for practically months.


so, what happened? :confused:

so, what happened? :confused:

Distance, followed by a really nasty back injury. An hour or so every other day is about all I can handle.

was the back injury from sex? My husband has done that. Hell, last night I split my lip open on the nightstand.

Does the hr long sex aggravate the back injury?

I'm single, and come April, I will have been celibate for seven years. 30 days? Ha, ha...

on purpose?!:jawdrop:

Oh yeah, and kudos to the preacher. I think it's a cool challenge. Challenges are good.

I think it's a good idea as well.

on purpose?!:jawdrop:

Yes, on purpose. In a sense in was very easy though. Not because there wasn't any pressure to conform; there was plenty. Not because I haven't been very loney, because I have. And certainly not due to a lack of opportunity, because it's all around. It's because of my state of mind and heart. I do have to add though, there was one extemely drunken and very unfortunate incendent that lasted for several minutes one night that i only remember because I was very traumatized by it, and I seem to have had an out of body experience during, with which to escape it. But other than that there has been none whatsoever. And I very rarely masturbate too. :shrug:

but what was the deciding moment to be celibate? Was it a challenge such as this?

I'm single, and come April, I will have been celibate for seven years. 30 days? Ha, ha...

The last time I got lucky was the end of April, 1989. I've given up all hope.

The first few years are the hardest. Which makes sense, I was in my twenties then (awash in testosterone).

I think that was one of the reasons I used to ride my bicycle so much. To be too tired to worry about being sexually frustrated.
http://www.shocking.com/~z29/55+.jpg

The last time I got lucky was the end of April, 1989. I've given up all hope.



Why the hell have you given up? :confused:

The last time I got lucky was the end of April, 1989. I've given up all hope.....

I don't understand. Its so easy to meet people. Just talk to everyone.
Sex is easy.
Its all the other stuff that's difficult.

but what was the deciding moment to be celibate? Was it a challenge such as this?

no, no...it developed over time, like a pavlov dog. i just wasn't getting what i wanted out of the experience. i was unfulfilled and it became a frustrating, negative thing that made me feel bored at best, so i just didn't want to do it anymore. well, that's not true. i still really, really want to do it. i just want it to be right next time. with my husband to be, and all it's supposed to be...

The last time I got lucky was the end of April, 1989. I've given up all hope.

The first few years are the hardest. Which makes sense, I was in my twenties then (awash in testosterone).

I think that was one of the reasons I used to ride my bicycle so much. To be too tired to worry about being sexually frustrated.
http://www.shocking.com/~z29/55+.jpg


it's funny. i was in my mid thirties...the sexual prime for females. i remember when it had been one year, i was like, "OH MY GOD I'M SUCH A FREAK!" HA!

no, no...it developed over time, like a pavlov dog. i just wasn't getting what i wanted out of the experience. i was unfulfilled and it became a frustrating, negative thing that made me feel bored at best, so i just didn't want to do it anymore. well, that's not true. i still really, really want to do it. i just want it to be right next time. with my husband to be, and all it's supposed to be...

how close have you gotten to having that husband to be?

Done them both and no it does not work like that.

Having sex everyday for 30 days is easy in a new relationship. Not having sex for 30 days is also easy if you ignore phone sex and masturbation. But as Asguard says, when you do meet its like rabbits.

so wouldn't it make sex better for the unmarried couples?

Yeah, sure it would. Hmm never tried abstaining at close quarters, have to admit. I'm the touchy feely type, so it would probably be difficult.

I would get get enough pleasure teasing the hell outta him, and not putting out. I'm evil that way.
Of course it would have to be with someone other than my husband, cuz he's evil that way too....bastard.

how close have you gotten to having that husband to be?

that's a difficult question to answer. so i'll say...close enough to keep me celibate.

Pastor issues sex challenge (http://www.myfoxtampabay.com/myfox/pages/Home/Detail;jsessionid=8BF8862B8DDB114CFB8C769376B0FD75 ?contentId=5781468&version=1&locale=EN-US&layoutCode=TSTY&pageId=1.1.1&sflg=1)

TAMPA - A pastor has a new challenge for his parishioners. It involves sex - a subject that may be taboo in many congregations.

The Relevant Church in Tampa's Ybor City has issued a 30-day sex challenge.

Single men and women can't have sex for 30 days, and married couples are urged to have it every day.

"If you look at studies, studies say in 30 days you can develop a habit," said Pastor Paul Wirth.

It definitely caught wives in the church by surprise.
If this Church opens up a branch in Fort Wayne, I've just changed churches!

why?
oooohhh! You're married. I forgot. LOL So every day would be do-able for a man? Even the period days? Would it be a chore or could you make it a bit exciting?

was the back injury from sex? My husband has done that. Hell, last night I split my lip open on the nightstand.

Rafting in the Grand Canyon.


Does the hr long sex aggravate the back injury?

Any sex aggravates the back injury. Sitting down hurts it.
Also, we both have roommates, so we can't have sex whenever.

Any sex aggravates the back injury. Sitting down hurts it.


I sympathize, I have been going through this for about 1 1/2 mnths now :(

Roman have you tried acupuncher or a pysio?

Both of those preffessions tend to have better results than surgical intervention for back injuries. Acupuncher can relive the pain and a good pysio can strengthen the back mussles which will pull your spine into its proper alinment

Roman have you tried acupuncher or a pysio?

Both of those preffessions tend to have better results than surgical intervention for back injuries. Acupuncher can relive the pain and a good pysio can strengthen the back mussles which will pull your spine into its proper alinment

I only do two things for injuries of any sort:
push-ups and anti-inflammatories.

I highly suggest you look at those two. They are non surgical and non medical and highly effective. Paliaties is another option which may help, alot of physios do this as well (at least here they do)